1.10.2014

Five Minute Friday: See

Joining with Five Minute Friday sponsored by Lisa-Jo Baker. On each Friday, Lisa-Jo posts a one word prompt and for five minutes we join together as an international community to write what the prompt brings to mind. No rewrite, no editing just letting the words flow from our hearts.

Today's prompt is See. 

Five Minute Friday
In returning to live in my parents' house I could see clearly where my mom would need me. The effects of the disease  were visible and demanding of immediate and constant attention. I almost knew before hand what I would need to do for her. What I did not see was how much my dad needed me here as well. I could see him visibly relax as I took on those everyday tasks of getting mom out of bed, to take her meds or to eat that often turned into a battle of wills.  I can also see where he needs to me to help him see it is ok for almost 80 year old men to let go of some things like  trying to shovel the driveway after a 15 in snowfall.  I can also see now where God has been gracious to push me past my reluctance to return home because I cannot now think of any place else I’d rather be.

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8 comments:

  1. UnknownJanuary 10, 2014 at 4:51 PM

    Wow. I'm coming over from FMF. That sounds like you have your hands and your heart full. I can't even begin to imagine what's wrong, but I will say a prayer for you that you don't have too heavy a burden. May God bless you.

    Hugs,
    Melinda

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    1. Renaissance WomenJanuary 11, 2014 at 9:21 AM

      Thank you Melinda. I can always use a good prayer and a good hug. :)

      God Bless and thanks for stopping by.

      ~ Cassandra

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  2. ~Maxine~January 10, 2014 at 5:03 PM

    My heart goes out to you and your family, but it seems you have found strength in adversity and you will only be the better for it. Take care of yourself, that is the one thing care givers forget to do. :)

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    1. Renaissance WomenJanuary 11, 2014 at 9:30 AM

      I'm lucky enough to have two of my siblings here as well to help distribute the care. Between us, we get things taken care of, each of us working within our own strengths. I seem to be the one my Mom gives the least hassle to about personally helping her. Maybe it's because I'm the oldest. :)

      Thanks for coming by.

      ~ Cassandra

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  3. AnonymousJanuary 10, 2014 at 5:24 PM

    WOW. I'm linking up through FMF. This is such an honest, post. I was a care-giver to my mother during her battle with Ovarian Cancer...care-giver to care-giver {{{HUG}}} for you. May God continue to Bless you and keep you strong.

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    1. Renaissance WomenJanuary 11, 2014 at 9:52 AM

      Thank you for hug Vernette and congratulations on your first Five Minute Friday! I know you will look forward to it every week as so many of us do. I am honored that came by to visit and hope you will come back again soon!

      God Bless and keep a prayer going for me.

      ~ Cassandra

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  4. LivJanuary 11, 2014 at 10:57 AM

    What an honest post! You have my deepest respect. The work of a care giver is often unseen and it requires much selflessness. Your parents are blessed!

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    1. Renaissance WomenJanuary 11, 2014 at 1:33 PM

      Thank you for your kind words, Liv. I count it my great blessing to do for my parents what they have done for me and my sibs all our lives.

      Thank you for coming by.

      ~ Cassandra

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